Church Minister Rob Tyler (Dwight Schultz) and his
Sunday School teacher wife Jill (Mel Harris) cannot have kids, so they decide
to adopt. Their caseworker, Doris Hanna (Rosanna DeSoto), have found two
children for Rob and Jill to adopt, Catherine (Ashley Peldon, who you might
remember as Marah Lewis on “Guiding Light” and is now a scream artist) and Eric
(Sam Gifaldi, who voiced Sid on the popular Nickelodeon cartoon “Hey Arnold!”).
Doris informs Rob and Jill that Cat and Eric have gone through three foster
homes, and Rob and Jill reassure Cat and Eric that they are not going to have
anymore foster homes to go through, as they are positive about adopting the
children.
Eric is very sweet and loving child, but Cat shows
early behaviors of being cold, reserved, and bossy towards Eric. It soon
escalates to violent outbursts of breaking things and stabbing the family dog,
Casey, with a needle. Rob and Jill turn to Doris for assistance, but she says
that there are regulations and cannot disclose the previous foster homes
situations. She only tells Rob and Jill that Cat and Eric’s mom died of pneumonia
when they were babies. There is also a recurring nightmare that Cat has, which
makes us think that something may have happened in Cat’s past that is causing
her to have these outbursts.
At a family gathering when Rob and Jill announce that
they have officially adopted Cat and Eric, Cat fondles with Rob’s father, Henry
(George D. Wallace), which shocks everyone that Rob and Jill take her to see
psychologist, Dr. Meritt. Cat puts on an act like nothing is wrong, which makes
me think as to why and how Dr. Merritt was able to easily be fooled by this?
Wouldn’t he been able to see that she was putting on an act?
Rob and Jill notice bruises on Eric, but think nothing
of it, but when Jill notices more, Eric admits that Cat has been sneaking out
of her room at night and beating him. Cat gloats about fooling Dr. Merritt and
later smashes Eric’s head on the concrete basement floor, causing him to go to
the ER.
Doris admits what she had discovered when she went to
Cat and Eric’s birth home after receiving a call from the mailman. Doris and
Jill go find Cat and Eric’s sister, Stephanie (Johannah Newmarch), who tells
them that she was abused by her father (Kim Kondrashoff). When she started to
fight back, that’s when he turned his attention to Cat, who was only one.
Cat cuts her classmate, Johnny, played by Louis Dupuis
(this is the part I saw on TV many years ago), Doris gives Rob and Jill a book
titled Kids who Kill. After reading the book, they seek out the author,
Dr. Rosemary Myers, played by Mariette Hartley, about the controversial holding
therapy, which isn’t used anymore.
When watching this film, at first there are questions
that are lingering in the viewers head about what could be causing Cat’s
behavior? You might think if it is because of something that might have
happened in a previous foster home, or the reason why Cat and Eric were taken
out of their birth home. You see her behavior and it might come off as shocking
or frightening, especially the part where Cat fondles Henry. However,
everything comes together as the film progresses.
The holding therapy scenes could come off as
infuriating because of the way Dr. Myers deliberately provokes Cat’s rage to
get through the emotions for Cat to control it and feel empathy. I personally
do not believe that when a child is having a moment like that you should restrain
them until they calm down because that does not work. I feel that families are
supposed to be a soft place to fall on and that doing the holding therapy will
make the child lose trust in their family and grow up resenting them.
During the last holding therapy session with Dr. Myers,
a tear fell from my eye, but I didn’t break down. I never cry while watching
movies, although there have been a few that I got teary-eyed at. However, when
this film was over, and I closed YouTube, I broke down.
I saw a comment from someone on IMDB saying that this film
is like “The Good Son,” but it is not. This film is based on Beth Thomas, who
was inappropriately abused by her birth father, and was adopted by Church
Minister Tim and his wife, Julie, who couldn’t have children of their own. The
only difference is Tim and Julie got Beth and her brother, John, when they were
babies. There was a documentary about Beth that came out a year before this
film came out. I saw that the next day and I was in complete shock over the things
they said.
This film raises awareness of Reactive Attachment
Disorder (RAD), which is diagnosed to children who have severe attachment issues,
like Beth and Cat. Certain symptoms include the child constantly changing homes
without any stability, their hunger or hygiene are ignored for hours, parents
don’t consistently care or love the child, or they are left alone for hours or
days.
Connell Watkins treated Beth, but she is no longer
licensed after suffocating a child by having them go through a “rebirth” process
in 2000. However, Beth was a success, as she got her degree in nursing and now
works in a Neonatal Intensive Care Unit, which has some of the most fragile and
smallest humans.
This film also sparked Peldon’s interest in psychology
that she went on to receive her bachelor’s degree in Child Psychology and Film,
her master’s degree in clinical psychology, and last I heard, as of 2014, she
is pursuing her PhD in depth psychology.
I would say if you want and can handle it, watch the
television film and the documentary as they are available on YouTube. Bear in
mind, they are not easy to watch. If you cry while watching them, I will not be
surprised as they make you want to protect your children, if you have any. I
would only say watch it once and you never have to see it again, but if you
rewatch it, you have more willpower than me.
Next week, I will be ending “Child Abuse Awareness
Month” with a film that I first heard about from Nostalgia Critic and decided
to check out, and what a surprise I was in for.
No comments:
Post a Comment